Monday, November 10, 2014

What has become important to you?


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Monday, November 10, 2014
Jeff Lampl


 “Formerly, when you did not know God, you were slaves to those who by nature       
are not gods. 9  But now  that you know God—or rather are known by God— 
how is it that you are turning back to those weak and miserable forces?          
Do you wish to be enslaved by them all over again?"
Galatians 4:8-9 (NIV2011)
 

You must not have any other god but me.
“You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind. . .
" 

Exodus 20:3-4 (NLT)

 

Tim Keller writes in the introduction to his book, Counterfeit gods . . . . .

“[An idol] is anything more important to you than God, anything that absorbs your heart and imagination more than God, anything you seek to give you what only God can give.”

“A counterfeit god is anything so central and essential to your life that, should you lose it, your life would feel hardly worth living.  An idol has such a controlling position in your heart that you can spend most of your passion and energy, your emotional and financial resources, on it without a second thought.  It can be family and children, or career and making money, or achievement and critical acclaim, or saving ‘face’ and social standing.  It can be a romantic relationship, peer approval, competence and skill, secure and comfortable circumstances, your beauty or your brains, a great political or social cause, your morality and virtue, or even success in the Christian ministry.”

“When your meaning in life is to fix someone else’s life, we may call it ‘codependency’ but it is really idolatry.  An idol is whatever you look at and say, in your heart of hearts, ‘If I have that, then I’ll feel my life has meaning, then I’ll know I have value, then I’ll feel significant and secure.’  There are many ways to describe that kind of relationship to something, but perhaps the best one is worship.”

Read through the following self-assessment.   Answer the questions in the first list and check whatever boxes in the second list apply to you.   Then ask, “Lord, what is it that you have revealed to me?”          

Where in your life might you be looking for salvation, not from Christ but from false “saviors”?  The following questions are geared toward helping you to tease out where your security and identity lie.*          

         What do I worry about most?  

         What, if I failed or lost it, would cause me to feel that I did not even want to live?
     What keeps me 
going?
 

         What do I rely on or comfort myself with when things go bad or get difficult?  

         What do I think most easily about? What does my mind go to when I am free? What
      preoccupies me?  

         What unanswered prayer would make me seriously think about turning away from
      God?
 

         What makes me feel the most self-worth? What am I the proudest of?  

         What do I really want and expect out of life? What would really make me happy?  

         What is my greatest nightmare?    

What is too important to me?  What is it I tell myself that I have to have in order to feel of worth and without which I cannot received life joyfully?*  

      □         Power idolatry: "I only feel of worth when I have power and influence over others.  

      □         Approval idolatry: "Life only has meaning when I am loved and respected by      

      □         Comfort idolatry: "I need a certain pleasure/ experience/a particular quality of life
            in order to be happy.
 

      □         Image idolatry: "I only feel of worth if I have a particular kind of look or body image.  

      □         Control idolatry: "I’m only worthy if I have mastery over my life in the area of   ."  

      □         Helping idolatry: "I am valuable insofar as others are dependent on me and need
            me."
 

      □         Dependence idolatry: "I’m of worth if someone is there to keep me safe”  

      □         Independence idolatry: "I’m only happy when I’m free from
                   
            obligations."     
  
        
Work idolatry: "I only have worth if--I am highly productive getting a lot done."


        
Achievement idolatry:I only have worth if--I am being recognized and excelling  

      □         Materialism idolatry: "I can’t be happy without financial freedom/possessions”  

      □         Religion idolatry: "I only have worth if I am living up to Christ’s moral standards”    

      □         Individual person idolatry: "I only have worth if-this one person is in my life and
            happy
there and/or 
happy with me."
 

      □         Irreligion idolatry: "I’m only happy independent of organized religion  

      □         Inner ring idolatry: "Life only has meaning /I only have worth if--a particular social z
                 grouping or professional grouping or other group lets me in."  

      □         Family idolatry: "I can’t be happy unless my children/my parents are happy with z
                 me."  

      □         Relationship idolatry: "I can’t live happy unless Mr. or Ms. 'Right' is in love with
                 me."  

      □         Suffering idolatry: "I only feel worthy of love when guilty or hurting and have
                 problems”  

      □         Ideology idolatry: "I’m not happy unless my political/social cause is winning”     

*Assessment tools excerpted from Tim Keller.  Suggested Reading:  Counterfeit Gods by Tim Keller


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Friday, November 7, 2014

National Adoption Month

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National Adoption Month

       
Friday, November 7, 2014
Jeff Lampl


You can tell for sure that you are now fully adopted as his own children because God sent the Spirit of his Son into our lives crying out, "Papa! Father!"  Doesn't that privilege of intimate conversation with God make it plain that you are not a slave, but a child?
And if you are a child, you're also an heir, with complete access to the inheritance. 

Galatians 4:6-7 (MSG)
 

 “For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God.  The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.”  The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.  Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed  we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.”
Romans 8:14-17 (NIV2011)

Could anything be nearer to the heart of God than adoption?   Is it through adoption that a Christian is a Christian.  It is through God’s decision to choose you to be his daughter or son that you are a daughter or son of God.   It is through the cost of adoption, Jesus’ death on the cross, that you have a place in God’s forever family that cannot be lost.   The truth is that you have been adopted.  

There is another truth however, the truth that the question in the picture above alludes to.   Every adopted child has the freedom to live into his or her adoption or to claim independence from it.   There is a sense in which even the darkest and most recalcitrant rebel can truly say “I have been adopted by God and am an heir to the riches of God’s glory” yet at the very same time miss it all because of her or his refusal to come home.   Are you “living into” your adoption by simply believing that God has signed your adoption papers, believing that he has chosen you, and by living with confidence in Him?

One more question.  Would you like play God?   You can adopt a child of any age who needs to know what God’s unconditional, forever love feels like up close and in the most profound and personal of ways.  

Check out these video clips.  As your heart goes out to these kids, you’ll be experiencing a small, small taste of how God’s heart goes out to you.



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Thursday, November 6, 2014

Four Kinds of People

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Four Kinds of People
Thursday, November 6, 2014
Jeff Lampl


“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then,
and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.” 

Galatians 5:1 (NIV2011)
 

The following four profiles are adapted from Tim Keller’s study on Galatians.   Which profile most approximates you?   Which of the four persons described is truly free?    In what way do you most need the Gospel to set you free from (whatever form of) bondage, so that you are free for the life to which you have been called in Christ?  

1.    Know what’s right and rely on doing what’s right in God’s eyes.  

  Downsides:   On the outside are sure they are right with God
                        On the inside are insecure because it’s not possible to know
                        how good good-enough is.
                        Pride or discouragement
                        Debilitating to think that God is disappointed with you
                        Sensitive (touchy) to criticism
                        May be deeply upset when prayers are not answered  

2.    Know what’s right, rely on doing what’s right, but know they fail  

  Upsides         More humble than (above)
                      
  More tolerant of others than “Pharisees” (above)”  

  Downsides:   Guilt ridden. I think I should measure up but I don’t
                        Moody because it’s an emotional roller coaster
                        Insecurity with God (“he love me, he loves me not”)  

3.    “Right” is relative, it’s not about Gods’ standards. I’m past that.  

   Traits           Little or no concept of God’s standards
                       Often intellectual and see things in relative terms
                       Have own standards and feel I am meeting them
                       Often happier than above two groups
                       Yet there is often an underlying self-righteousness.
                       A sense in which I am earning my own “salvation”
                       Often feel inwardly superior to religious people  

4.    I know what’s right and fail at it, but I don’t rely on my ability to do
  right.  I know the Gospel and it is relevant to my life.
 

  Upsides       They experience the freedom of the Gospel
                      They seek to obey God out of freedom and trust
                       More tolerant than #3
                       More sympathetic than #2
                       More confident than #1
                       Typically happy, generous and they care about
you


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Wednesday, November 5, 2014

Prayer for the Nations this Thursday

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rayer for the Nations this Thursday
Wednesday, November 5, 2014
Jeff Lampl



“ I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them; intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them.  Pray this way for kings and all who are in authority
so that we can live  peaceful and quiet lives marked by godliness and dignity.
This is good and pleases God our Savior, who wants everyone to be saved and to understand the truth.  For there is only one God and one  Mediator who can
reconcile God and humanity—the man Christ Jesus. He gave his life to purchase freedom for everyone. This is the message God gave to the world
at just the right time
.”
 1 Timothy 2:1-6 (NLT)

 
Tomorrow, Thursday evening, Nov. 6, from 7-8 PM, Vineyard Christian Fellowship (“the Barn”) (Appleton Road south of Kemblesville on the left past the Golf course) will hold a community prayer service focusing of the persecuted church in the various "hot spots" in the world.    Christians are dying for their faith.   Mosul, once a thriving center of Christian witness has perhaps 30 Christian families left where a decade ago there were thousands.  Christians are dying for their faith, particularly in northern Iraq and Syria. A secondary focus will be on the missionaries sponsored by our churches.   

This will be a multi-church event in various prayer formats: small groups, corporate intercession, prayer pairs.  

Come make a difference: Pray with fervency and faith for one hour on Thursday evening,
November 6th!


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Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Back off! It's all mine!!!


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Back off!   It's all mine!!


Tuesday, November 4, 2014
Jeff Lampl



Pastor and Author John Ortberg writes,

“To an adult, it’s ironic when a two-year-old says, “Mine.” Adults know that two-year-olds don’t earn any of their stuff. It is all provided for them. It is a gift from someone much larger and wiser than they. Nevertheless, two-year-olds get extremely attached to their stuff. 
If someone tries to take something, that item suddenly becomes their favorite stuff.  Two-year-olds can be so deluded, can’t they?

Consider a few statements from Scripture:
 “The earth is the LORD’s, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it.”
(Psalm 24:1)
“Remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth.”
(Deuteronomy 8:18)
“‘The silver is mine and the gold is mine,’ declares the LORD Almighty.” (Haggai 2:8)

“I have been around churches for a long time. Do you know what the most frequently asked question about tithing is? “Do I have to tithe on the net or on the gross?” Translation: “How little can I give and not get God mad at me?” The implied question is: “How much of my stuff can I keep and not get in trouble?” King David once said to God, “But who am I, and who are my people, that we should be able to give as generously as this?” (1 Chronicles 29:14)  He doesn’t ask, “What’s the least amount I have to give and not get God ticked off?” He says, “Who am I, that I should be able to give like this? I want to use my stuff to build your kingdom, not my kingdom.” One day we will give an account for what God has entrusted to us. That can be an occasion of great joy or of deep regret. One of the most amazing statements about the early church is that “there were no needy persons among them.” If they had stuff, they shared it. There had never been a community like this.

Yale theologian Miroslav Volf says that there are two kinds of richness in life: “richness of having” and “richness of being.” Richness of having is an external circumstance. Richness of being is an inner experience. We usually focus on richness of having. We think true happiness lies there. Our language reflects this when the “haves” keep popping up in our thoughts:
If only I could have my dream house . . . .
If only I could have a higher salary . . . .
When I have a better car . . . .
When I have enough money for the ultimate vacation . . . .

We seek richness of having, but what we really want is richness of being. We want to be grateful, joyful, content, free from anxiety, and generous. We scramble after richness of having because we think it will produce richness of being, but it does not. In the sense of “having,” we can become rich by long hours, shrewd investments, and a lot of luck. But it is possible to have a barn full of money and a boatload of talent and movie star good looks and still be poor. The bottomless pit of our desires will never be satisfied. No matter how much we have, we remain what Volf calls “not-enough people.” For not-enough people, there exists no lasting soul satisfaction. On the other hand, we can have very little and yet be rich. A rich soul experiences life differently. It experiences a sense of gratitude for what it has received, rather than resentment for what it hasn’t gotten. It faces the future with hope rather than anxiety. The apostle Paul discovered that when he was living as a friend and companion of Jesus, who “though he was rich, yet for [our] sakes he became poor.” Paul himself experienced richness of being. He became a “more-than enough” person. He found that whether he was living in luxury or living in prison he had more than enough, because he had been freed from the treadmill of having.


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Monday, November 3, 2014

Surprising Advice for Passing on Your Faith to Your Children

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Surprising Advice for Passing on Your Faith to Your
Children


Monday, November 3, 2014
Jeff Lampl


“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” 
Proverbs 22:6 (ESV)


CHARLOTTE – For Christian parents to pass on their faith to their children, they should not answer their children's questions but respond with more questions to help their kids think through the issues themselves rather than rely upon their parents, famed Christian apologist Josh McDowell and his son, Sean McDowell, explained recently at the Southern Evangelical Seminary's 21st Annual National Conference on Christian Apologetics in Charlotte, North Carolina.
In raising his four children, Josh McDowell explained that he tried to never answer their questions but to respond to them with another question because he wanted them to develop their own convictions rather than simply become Christians because their parents are Christian.
"I needed to teach my kids to think," he said, "to think logically, to come to their conclusions. Because if there is always dad's answer, then they couldn't develop convictions."
Josh McDowell has authored or co-authored 120 books, including More Than a Carpenter, which has been translated into over 85 languages and has sold over 15 million copies. Sean McDowell is an assistant professor in the apologetics program at Biola University.
Sean McDowell gives the same advice to parents. He recalled one parent who approached him after a public speaking engagement and told him that her daughter asked her, "does God love Osama Bin Laden?" The parent wanted to know how she should answer.
"Oh, that's easy," he told her, "you say, 'what do you think?'"
"A question is always better than an answer," Sean McDowell explained. "Why? Jesus asked a ton of questions when he knew the answer, right? Because he wanted to elicit faith and it builds a relationship and gives you insight into what somebody is thinking."
When a parent asks more questions, instead of answering their child's questions, Josh McDowell added, it opens a dialogue with the child. And by the end of the dialogue "it was their answer, not daddy's answer" and "they had more convictions about it."
Josh and Sean McDowell both do a lot of public speaking as part of their ministries. Their Saturday talk, "Passing on the Faith: A Conversation with a Father and a Son," was the first time, however, that they appeared on stage together.
Sean McDowell recalled a time in his life when he began to doubt his faith and told his father about it. He was 19-years-old and a student at Biola, a Christian university. After explaining that he was not convinced that Christianity is true, without hesitating Josh McDowell responded, "son, I think that's fantastic!"
The audience laughed after Sean McDowell said he wondered if his dad really heard what he said. He then asked his dad something he had been curious about: "What was really going on in your mind?"
He meant want he said, Josh McDowell answered, "because you can't run on your dad and mom's faith, you've got to develop your own faith, your own convictions."
Josh McDowell also explained that he anticipates difficult questions from his kids and thinks ahead of time how he will answer. So, when his son told him of his doubts about Christianity, he already knew what he was going to say.
As a father, there are two pieces of wisdom he gives his children, Josh McDowell said: 1) "Seek the truth. If you truly seek the truth without prejudice or bias you will find it. What more could any father want?" 2) "Don't reject something because it's the faith of your father. Reject it because it's not true."
"We need to put our children on a quest for truth," he added. "If you truly seek it, you will find the truth."
The key to raising kids, Josh McDowell believes, is building a relationship with your children. Citing a mantra he heard from a psychologist, he said, "rules without relationships leads to rebellion."
Whenever he had difficulties that needed to be addressed with one of his four children, he explained that he always tried to put their relationship first in the conversation by asking three questions: "Do you know that I love you?" "Do you know that I love your mother?" And, "when you get married, do you want with your spouse and your children what I have with your mother and with you?"
After his children inevitably answered "yes," he followed with, "what you're doing here could create a barrier to ever having that."

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