Friday, January 31, 2014

Made to Desire

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“a man will . . . be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
The man and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame” 

Genesis 2:24-25 (NIV)
 

For thousands of years Christians and Jews have considered these verses foundational to society.   Men and women are created different from one another, to complement one another, to be equal to one another.  Together they mirror in some unique way the image of God.   Together they were given the responsibility of being God’s stewards of and God’s benevolent co-rulers over all of creation  (Work was created as a good thing!)

They were also given the task of procreating (chapter two specifies how this was to happen in a family), raising their children and passing on to them the task they were given.

Given this all of this, it is not surprising that God created each of us with an innate desire for connection with opposite sex.  This desire is experienced physically, emotionally, romantically, sexually, in one’s fantasies, dreams, hopes and yearnings.  It is described with words like chemistry, connection, clicking, love, being in love, falling in love, falling for her/him, smitten, hooked and more.

It’s not our fault, God set us up for attraction.   What I’ve noticed however is that it takes only seconds to “fall”, sort of like tripping, or having an accident, experiencing something that just happens to us. 

On Sunday we will begin a three week series on what it takes to stay in love.    The Bible has little to say about falling in love but a lot to say about staying there.

 

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Thursday, January 30, 2014

Love's Bottom Line


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                             New 3 Week Series beginning Sunday, February 2

“Never get revenge. Never hold a grudge against any of your people. Instead, love your neighbor as you love yourself. I am the LORD”       Leviticus 19:18 (GW)

“I'm giving you a new commandment: Love each other in the same way that I have
loved you.
"
   
John 13:34 (GW)

Do you know the “golden rule”, “treat others the way you want them to treat you”?  Who can argue with that?  It’s terrific advice.   How often do you think about that with your husband or wife? Obeying this rule would go a long way in our relationships wouldn’t it?

The golden rule is a little bit like Leviticus 19:18, “love your neighbor as you love yourself”.   They have one important constant that they share, which is that the central standard of behavior is me, myself and I.   But that’s not a good standard.  If what I like is the standard for how I treat others, well, what I like is to be pampered, cajoled, to served endless goodies while I watch football (which Kathy actually does on Super Bowl Sunday – and no more!), told lies about how wonderfuI I am, and have nothing required of me.    That’s not a real good standard for building a loving relationship I don’t think.  

A higher standard would be to treat the other as the other desires to be treated.   But there is a yet even higher standard, the standard that Jesus instituted immediately after washing the disciples’ feet.
 
 
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Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Staying in Love

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Wednesday, January 29, 2014   Jeff Lampl

                     “The LORD God had formed all the wild animals and all the birds out of
                the 
ground. Then he brought them to the man to see what he would call them.
                W
hatever the man called each creature became its name. So the man named
                all 
the domestic animals, all the birds, and all the wild animals. But the man found
                no 
helper who was right for him.
       
              So the LORD God caused him to fall into a deep sleep. While the man
                was 
sleeping, the LORD God took out one of the man's ribs and closed up the
                flesh at 
that place.  Then the LORD God formed a woman from the rib that he had
                taken 
from the man. He brought her to the man.
       
               The man said

              
              This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh. 
                   
              She will be named woman
                      
                
because she was taken from man.” 
      
             That is why a man will leave his father and mother and will be united with his
                
wife, and they will become one flesh. The man and his wife were both naked, but 
                t
hey weren't ashamed of it.  Genesis 2:19-25 (GW)

Viewing scripture as inspired by God, Jews and Christians have for 1,000’s of years seen this ancient story as foundational for how men and women were to carry out their task of filling the earth and living together on it. (Genesis 1:28)
Adam was beginning his task of partnering with God as steward over the world of nature,  but he found himself  incomplete.  So God created woman.  I like how the ancient rabbis would insist, “she was not taken from Adam’s head so as to rule over him, nor was she taken from his feet so as to be ruled over,  rather she was taken from his side to be a partner equal to him”.  Furthermore the Hebrew word for helper is the very same word used elsewhere in scripture to describe God Himself.
The poetic quote in the above passage was actually a solo sung at Kathy and my wedding 27 years ago!   And it came to pass that verse 24 became a reality for us as it did in the story for Adam and Eve.   We became one, never to be separated, and we took on the task of raising 5 children together. 
This family unit is the foundation of all of society.   The implications of oneness are just huge.   But they are hard to accomplish.  On Sunday I will begin to teach what the bible says not just about how to stay together, but about how to stay in love with each other.
 

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Tuesday, January 28, 2014

New 3 Week Series!


New 3 Week Series beginning Sunday, February 2, 2014   
 
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Tuesday, January 28, 2014   Jeff Lampl 


Dear CLC Family,  

On Sunday February 2nd I will begin a three week series called “Falling and Staying in Love”.   Falling in love is easy.  It takes only seconds!  However, staying in love is hard.   In this series I will be drawing the wisdom the bible gives us and I will also be drawing on the wisdom and practical application of scripture that comes from Andy Stanley, Tim Keller and the course called Marriage 101.

Because this series will last only three weeks I want to challenge each of you, married or single, to choose at least one of the resources below to watch in order to strengthen your marriage or to prepare you for a strong marriage.

I hope you spend the month of February thanking God for your wife or husband and in the process invest in your spouse in a way that value her or him more than ever before!

God is great!  Pastor Jeff

Andy Stanley:       Video Series:        Staying in Love    
                                                           
http://northpoint.org/messages/staying-in-love  

                               Staying in Love 4 week Group Study
                                                            http://zondervan.com/9780310327660  

                                Video Series:        iMarriage: Expectations          
                   
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A48lpEXQTOE&list=PL3D15E49272413D8D

Tim
Keller                Book                   The Meaning of Marriage  Tim and Kathy Keller   
                                                    
    http://timothykeller.com/books/the_meaning_of_marriage  

                                 Video                    Tim Keller teaches Google employees
                                                             
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06y5Ub9oamE  

                                 Video                     Tim and Kathy Keller address the Gospel Coalition
                                                              
http://vimeo.com/45289912    

Emerson Eggerich
                                 Book                      Love and Respect  (Important book particularly for
                                                               women.   Although the book covers important
                                                               differences between men and women, it especially
                                                               explains a little understood but crucial aspect of the
                                                               needs of
                                         
http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56405.Love and_Respect 

Marriage 101        8 Week Video Workbook Pre-marital course for couples.

To Register:

·         Go to www.marriage101online.com/products.

·         Check the box next to “Online Course - $95.00” (note that this
     charge will be eliminated after the access code is entered).

·         Click the red “Add to CART” button and the bottom of the page.

·         Click the red “Checkout” button.

·         Fill in the information on the M101 Online Course Registration Page

·         Enter the Instant Access Code in the “Code (Optional)” field.

Instant Access Code: D6NIQ

·         Continue through the checkout process (there will be a $0.00
     balance).

·         To login to the course, visit www.marriage101online.com/users/login
     and enter the login information created at registration.
 

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Monday, January 27, 2014

The Grand Finale!

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Monday, January 27, 2014 



 God has made us what we are.
He has created us in Christ Jesus to live lives filled with good works
that he has prepared for us to do."
Ephesians 2:8-10 (GW)

The following is excerpted from the Afterword of Unfinished: Believing is only the Beginning.   I hope you read it.  It’s the Grand Finale of the book, a great picture of the Great Calling and Adventure to which each of us is called.   It’s followed by a wonderful video, but you need to read his compelling lead up to it.   I hope and do believe that we as a church have been advanced in our service to the King, Jesus, through Richard Stearns’ book.   Let’s finish strong by reading then watching an incredible picture of the Kingdom of God.

 Flash Mob

I want to leave you with one final thought – a striking metaphor of sight and song, a beautiful picture of what God is calling us to be and to do in our world.  A few days back my friend Leighton Ford sent me a link to a remarkable video on YouTube.  Leighton promised me that it would bring me joy . . .and it did.  If you can, watch the video now or right after you have finished reading, but please don’t miss it. (Please scan the image above to watch the video, or go to the web address:  “Son Sabadell Flashmob”  YouTube, accessed September 20, 2012,  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBaHPND2QJg .  The flash mob video captured something quite singular and compelling.  On May 19, 2012, the Valles Symphony Orchestra, the Lieder, Amics de l’Opera, and Coral Belles Arts choirs transformed a city square in Sabadell, Spain.

I believe God is calling us to sing and to play – sing and play his amazing song of love, forgiveness, and transformation in every city square and in all the nations of the world.  He has equipped each of us with instruments that only we can play, and he has given us his voice.  He bids us to go, to join together and sing and play the good news of his salvation.

The video begins when just one lone tuxedoed man appears in a busy city square and quietly starts to pluck out the notes of Beethoven’s Symphony No. 9, better known to many Christians as the majestic hymn “Joyful, Joyful, We Adore Thee.”  At first no one notices.  Then some children step closer to watch the curious sight.  A few seconds later a woman playing cello walks up and joins him.  And the two of them play the song.  Then a bassoonist steps out of a nearby door, followed by two people with violins.  The music grows in strength and power.  A crowd begins to gather:  children, shoppers, business folk, a couple holding hands.  A young child climbs a lamppost to get a better look.  More musicians join, coming from different buildings and doorways around the square – now twenty, then fifty, each with their own instrument, all playing the same lyrical notes.  Joyful, joyful, we adore thee.  Smiles, laughter, cameras clicking, children hoisted up on shoulders, people pointing and crowding closer; a throng of people have stopped to watch and listen, drawn by the beauty of the music and oddness of the scene.

Then, out of nowhere, the conductor comes into view, lifting his hands and directing his players; all eyes are now on him.  Still more appear:  clarinets, oboes, flutes, and piccolos – trumpets, trombones, French horns, and drums – seventy, now one hundred.  People stop, cafes empty, and offices are abandoned.  The audience swells – men and women, old and young, clusters of children, mothers with strollers, loungers, and lovers.  There is something magical about all of this.  And then, just when it seems that the orchestra is complete, a mighty choir steps out of the crowd, surrounds the musicians, and lifts up the heavenly lyrics with soaring voices.

Joyful, joyful, we adore Thee,
God of glory, Lord of love;
Hearts unfold like flow’rs before Thee,
Op’ning to the sun above.

Children start to dance.  The hundreds of onlookers can no longer resist.  They, too, begin to mouth the words, sing the chorus, and lift their hands to the music.  The remarkable ensemble of talented musicians plays on, increasing the tempo, filling the city square with their sounds until, finally, the music comes to its magnificent crescendo, and the crowd erupts with praise and applause.

What beauty!  What grace!  How extraordinary.  What a picture for the church of Jesus Christ.  Bring your instruments, lift your voices, and join the King’s great symphony of love.  The world is watching and listening, longing to hear a new song, a different song, a song of hope.

Melt the clouds of sin and sadness;
Drive the dark of doubt away;
Giver of immortal gladness,
Fill us with the light of day!

This same song first began long ago in Bethlehem, when just one angel sang:

“Do not be afraid.  I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people.  Today in the town of David, a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord.”  (Luke 2:10-11)

More angels joined this chorus, then more and still more – “a great company of the heavenly host  . . . praising God”  (Luke 2:13) and singing the chorus of God’s good news:

“Glory to God in the highest heaven,
    and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”  (Luke 2:14)

Now the King invites you.  Come, drop what you’re doing, pick up your instruments, and come – into the cities and into the streets.  Join the great chorus.  The King calls his children, sending them into the world to play and sing.  Life up your voices and join in the great mission of the King. 

Mortals, join the happy chorus,
which the morning stars began;
Father love is reigning o’er us,
Brother love binds man to man.
Ever singing, march we onward,
Victors in the midst of strife<
Joyful music leads us Sunward,
In the triumph song of life.

 

He called you out of darkness
and called you into light.
He filled you with his Spirit,
put his song upon your heart.
He asked you to his banquet
and now . . . .
He bids you sing.

 

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Friday, January 24, 2014

God's Greatest Adventure for Your Life


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Friday, January 24, 2014   Jeff Lampl


 “Whoever heard me spoke well of me, and those who saw me commended me,
because I rescued the poor who cried for help, and the fatherless who had none
to assist him.
The man who was dying blessed me; I made the widow's heart sing.
I put on righteousness as my clothing; justice was my robe and my turban.
I was eyes to the blind and feet to the lame.
 I was a father to the needy; I took up the case of the stranger.
I broke the fangs of the wicked and snatched the victims from their teeth”
Job 29:11-17 (NIV)


On Sunday we finish Unfinished:  Believing is only the beginning.    Coaches, parents, teachers and mentors all tell us to finish strong.  Here’s how you can finish this series strong. 
First, read the above scripture and tell God that’s the kind of man or woman you want to be.  Ask Him to create that heart in you with the discipline to follow through.
Second, read the following excerpt taken directly from the last two pages of the book
(pp 215, 216)

Look around you.  What can you see?  What is yours to do?   . . . .   In God’s expanding kingdom there is no unimportant job and no insignificant person.  Every one of his spiritual dominoes is positioned to ignite a sprawling chain reaction that will echo through the years.  But that first domino must fall; your domino must fall.  Is there a single mom who needs your encouragement, a child who needs your love?  Do you see the elderly woman, lonely for a friend; a drowning teenager, hungering for a dad?  Have you looked into the hearts of those you work with and seen the desperation in their lives?  Is there an immigrant family struggling to adjust, needing a friend to guide them in a foreign place?  Is there a social problem that you might mobilize people to solve?  Do you have in your bank account the money that a floundering ministry needs to survive, that a homeless man needs to get a fresh start?  Do you have skills and abilities that others need – in finance, as a doctor or lawyer or handyman who can repair a broken-down car?  Is there an issue of justice for which you can advocate, a wrong that you can right?  Do you ache for the children who die from hunger, the orphans lacking a home, or the widow with children who just needs a loan?  So many people are crying out to God for his help.  Might you be the answer to one of their prayers?  How many people still wait to see and hear the good news of Jesus Christ?  How many invitations from the King have yet to be delivered?  “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”  (Rom. 10:15)

There are as many ways to join the great mission of Christ in our world as there are people.  You have met in this book just a few of the hundreds of people I’ve encountered who are living their own kingdom adventures.  The one thing they all share is the unwavering belief that God made them for a purpose, to serve him and build his kingdom.  They have rearranged their lives to put Christ and his kingdom mission at the center.  They have enlisted; they have joined the rescue mission to take the world for Christ, to serve as ambassadors of his love and herald the good news of the gospel.  They are the finishers, and the thing they have in common is that they have all said yes to God’s great adventure for their lives.  It doesn’t matter who you are:  rich or poor, young or old, educated or not.  You are a child of the King.  You are loved beyond measure.  You were created for a purpose.  And you have been invited to join the great rescue mission of our Father who is in heaven.  He asks only that you bring whatever you hold in your hands; then he asks you to let it go, to offer it to him.
That’s when the adventure begins.

 

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Thursday, January 23, 2014

Prepare for Sunday!


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Thursday, January 23, 2014   Jeff Lampl



“Spend your time and energy in the exercise of keeping spiritually fit”
1 Timothy 4:7
 

Sunday is all about being spiritually fit! 
Here’s the schedule
 

 
9:00       Worship Begins                   Message:  God’s Greatest Adventure for your Life.  
                                                            (
my dad always told me “leave yourself enough time”
                                                            meaning leave early so
you
can beat the rush.   Since
                                                            we’ll all be worshipping together in one service it will
                                                            take 
longer to park and drop off the children, so I
                                                            suggest that you leave no
later than 6:30 or 7:00,
                                                            okay maybe as late as 8:30)
 

               Baptism Renewal               Take the time necessary to reread Monday’s blog so
                                                            that you are  prepared to “be all there”, fully present to
                                                            God during this time.  

               Membership Renewal       Take time to review the covenant card you will have
                                                           the opportunity to sign. Signing it means that you’re
                                                           saying to God and to the CLC Family, “I’m in.   I can be
                                                           counted on.  This family is my family and I’m in on
                                                           all that it implies.”  

10:10      Groups “Fair”                    You and your family are encouraged to check out each
                                                           of the 25+ tables
representing 50+ CLC Community,
                                                           Service and  Outreach  groups.   Ask God where He
                                                           might want you to “just jump in” and embark on your
                                                           own personal 2014 adventure!!!

 

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