Monday, November 10, 2014

What has become important to you?


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What has become important to you?
       
Monday, November 10, 2014
Jeff Lampl


 “Formerly, when you did not know God, you were slaves to those who by nature       
are not gods. 9  But now  that you know God—or rather are known by God— 
how is it that you are turning back to those weak and miserable forces?          
Do you wish to be enslaved by them all over again?"
Galatians 4:8-9 (NIV2011)
 

You must not have any other god but me.
“You must not make for yourself an idol of any kind. . .
" 

Exodus 20:3-4 (NLT)

 

Tim Keller writes in the introduction to his book, Counterfeit gods . . . . .

“[An idol] is anything more important to you than God, anything that absorbs your heart and imagination more than God, anything you seek to give you what only God can give.”

“A counterfeit god is anything so central and essential to your life that, should you lose it, your life would feel hardly worth living.  An idol has such a controlling position in your heart that you can spend most of your passion and energy, your emotional and financial resources, on it without a second thought.  It can be family and children, or career and making money, or achievement and critical acclaim, or saving ‘face’ and social standing.  It can be a romantic relationship, peer approval, competence and skill, secure and comfortable circumstances, your beauty or your brains, a great political or social cause, your morality and virtue, or even success in the Christian ministry.”

“When your meaning in life is to fix someone else’s life, we may call it ‘codependency’ but it is really idolatry.  An idol is whatever you look at and say, in your heart of hearts, ‘If I have that, then I’ll feel my life has meaning, then I’ll know I have value, then I’ll feel significant and secure.’  There are many ways to describe that kind of relationship to something, but perhaps the best one is worship.”

Read through the following self-assessment.   Answer the questions in the first list and check whatever boxes in the second list apply to you.   Then ask, “Lord, what is it that you have revealed to me?”          

Where in your life might you be looking for salvation, not from Christ but from false “saviors”?  The following questions are geared toward helping you to tease out where your security and identity lie.*          

         What do I worry about most?  

         What, if I failed or lost it, would cause me to feel that I did not even want to live?
     What keeps me 
going?
 

         What do I rely on or comfort myself with when things go bad or get difficult?  

         What do I think most easily about? What does my mind go to when I am free? What
      preoccupies me?  

         What unanswered prayer would make me seriously think about turning away from
      God?
 

         What makes me feel the most self-worth? What am I the proudest of?  

         What do I really want and expect out of life? What would really make me happy?  

         What is my greatest nightmare?    

What is too important to me?  What is it I tell myself that I have to have in order to feel of worth and without which I cannot received life joyfully?*  

      □         Power idolatry: "I only feel of worth when I have power and influence over others.  

      □         Approval idolatry: "Life only has meaning when I am loved and respected by      

      □         Comfort idolatry: "I need a certain pleasure/ experience/a particular quality of life
            in order to be happy.
 

      □         Image idolatry: "I only feel of worth if I have a particular kind of look or body image.  

      □         Control idolatry: "I’m only worthy if I have mastery over my life in the area of   ."  

      □         Helping idolatry: "I am valuable insofar as others are dependent on me and need
            me."
 

      □         Dependence idolatry: "I’m of worth if someone is there to keep me safe”  

      □         Independence idolatry: "I’m only happy when I’m free from
                   
            obligations."     
  
        
Work idolatry: "I only have worth if--I am highly productive getting a lot done."


        
Achievement idolatry:I only have worth if--I am being recognized and excelling  

      □         Materialism idolatry: "I can’t be happy without financial freedom/possessions”  

      □         Religion idolatry: "I only have worth if I am living up to Christ’s moral standards”    

      □         Individual person idolatry: "I only have worth if-this one person is in my life and
            happy
there and/or 
happy with me."
 

      □         Irreligion idolatry: "I’m only happy independent of organized religion  

      □         Inner ring idolatry: "Life only has meaning /I only have worth if--a particular social z
                 grouping or professional grouping or other group lets me in."  

      □         Family idolatry: "I can’t be happy unless my children/my parents are happy with z
                 me."  

      □         Relationship idolatry: "I can’t live happy unless Mr. or Ms. 'Right' is in love with
                 me."  

      □         Suffering idolatry: "I only feel worthy of love when guilty or hurting and have
                 problems”  

      □         Ideology idolatry: "I’m not happy unless my political/social cause is winning”     

*Assessment tools excerpted from Tim Keller.  Suggested Reading:  Counterfeit Gods by Tim Keller


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