Humility
Tuesday, May 17, 2016
Jeff Lampl
Jeff Lampl
“Humble yourself before the Lord and he will lift you
up when the time is right” 1 Peter 5:6.
We are told to humble ourselves. Here’s how I’ve learned to do it. . . . .
First, it is important to
place ourselves “under” people. We are
told to treat others as “better than ourselves” (Philippians 2:3). For me the most difficult way to do this, and
perhaps the most important, is to listen, to be “all there” when anyone is
speaking to me. Sometimes I find myself
evaluating conversations, thinking of some as more important than others. But I don’t think I’m very good at evaluating
correctly. Too often I evaluate
conversations, based on how valuable the person is to my purposes rather than
on how important that person is to God, and how important my attentiveness is
to that person. It may be that my ear
is the only ear that will truly ‘hear’ them when they desperately need to be
heard.
Second it is important to be
attentive to my pride. Each time I
become defensive, or find myself criticizing another, or find myself gloating
that I was right about something or become overly impressed or depressed about
a teaching I have given, I know that behind those emotions is pride, the desire
to think of myself highly in comparison to others. Behind pride is the need to be “better
than”. Each time I find that in myself
I can be sure that I am being acted on, not by God, but by the devil. I have even found myself becoming proud of
humble, which of course mean that whatever humility actually existed
disappeared the moment I noticed it. The
moment I think I am becoming humble is the very moment at which I can be sure
that I am proud.
There is good news and, of
course, it is the Good News which is the Gospel. Each time I recognize my sin, my pride, my
selfishness and rather than dismissing it, instead admit it, I am at that
moment in a place where God can take His rightful place in my will, heart and
mind. Perhaps our place of humility is
found in the two profound clauses in this summary of the Gospel. “I am more sinful/prideful/selfish than I
can ever know, AND I am more loved than I can ever imagine”.
“Lord, may I become more like Jesus. May it be so that I become so aware of you
and of others that I have no need to seek humility, rather in my attentiveness
to you, to others and to the tasks you give me, pride finds itself blocked from
its insidious entry into my heart. Yet
when it does find its way in, Lord, let see it, painful as that may be, let me
admit it and accept your forgiveness and your love. Amen”
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Jeff, this was an excellent discussion of humility. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. Very helpful!
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